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男女同学关系过分的亲密,该怎么办?

作者:周其英  时间:2014-05-27 20:58:26    浏览数:

CONGQUNIANQIZHONGKAOSHIHOU,FAXIANBANLIYOUJIDUINANNVSHENG,YOUSHIMEISHIZONGSHIWANGYIKUAICOU。ZAIHOULAI,YOUYIDUIJIUGANCUIZHONGWUBUQUJIAOSHI,LIANGGERENDUODAOSHIYANLOUPIJINGCHU。NIZHAORENJIATANHUA,NIHAIMEISHUOSHENME,NVSHENGJIUSHUO “WOMENMEIYOUTANLIANAI”,TAIDUHENBUHAO。JINNIANSANYUEFENDEYIGEWANSHANG,QUQINSHIDELUSHANG,KANJIANYINANYINVLOULOUBAOBAO,DADANAONAO,JINLEYIKANSHIWOBANDELIANGGEXUESHENG。WOMEIPIPINGTAMEN,ZHISHIGAOSUTAMENMINGTIANJIWOYIGEHELIDEJIESHI。NANSHENGDIERTIANGAOSUWO:“WOMENSUIRANQUEDINGLENEIZHONGGUANXI,DANHENSHAOJIECHU,WORENWEIGENBENBUYINGXIANGXUEXI。”TAIDUYESHIJIQIBUHAO。

WENTIBUSHIZHISHITAMENJIGEDEWENTI,YEXUBANLIDEXUESHENGDOUZAIKANZHEWOGAIZENMECHULIZHEIXIESHI,DOUZAIGUANWANG。

 

周其英解读

WEILESHUOMINGWENTIZAIJUYIGEANLI:YIMINGCHENGJIYOUYIDENVSHENG,GAOYIRUXIAOHOUZAIXINBANJIZHONGMEIYOUFAXIANYIZHANGSHUXIDEMIANKONG,BIANGANDAOHENGUDU。ZAIYICICHENGCHEHUIJIADETUZHONGYUDAOLEYIWEIXIAOXUETONGXIAODENANSHENG,BIANGANDAOSHIFENDEQINQIE。YIHOULIANGRENCHANGYONGSHUXINHEDIANHUAXIANGHULIANXI,BINGCHANSHENGLEGANQING。ZAIQIMOKAOSHIZHONGNVHAIDECHENGJIYILUOQIANZHANG,LAOSHIHENVHAIDEFUMUDOUFEICHANGZHENJING。HOULAI,NVHAIDEJIAZHANGFAXIANLEZHEIGE“MIMI”,BINGZAIHANJIAZHONGJIANGNVERRUANJINZAIJIAZHONG,YICILAIZUZHINVERYUNEIGENANSHENGJIECHU。YITIAN,NVHAIWEILEZIJISUOWEIDEAIQING,JINGZAIMUQINDESHUIBEIZHONGTOUFANGLEDUYAO,DUOMENERCHU。XINGHAOMUQINBEILINJUJISHIFAXIANBINGSONGWANGYIYUAN,CAIMIANYUYISI。SHIHOU,GONGANRENYUANWENQIYUANYIN,NVHAIJINGFENFENDISHUO: “SHEIRANGTANEIYANGDUIWO,WOYEYAOJITADIANYANSEKANKAN。” XUESHENGZAOLIANWENTIRIYIYANZHONG,YIJINGCHENGWEIYIGELINGRENGUANZHUDESHEHUIWENTI。

早恋的原因分析:

一、    家长对孩子缺乏关注和沟通

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二、    家庭教育方式不当

HENDUOJIAZHANGBUDONGQINGCHUNQIHAIZIDESHENGLITEDIAN,DANGHAIZIYUYIXINGJIAOWANGMIQIESHIJIUXIAOTIDAZUO,BUGUHAIZIDEZIZUN,YONGBAOLIHUOSHENGYINGDEFANGSHIJIEJUEWENTI,DAOZHIZHEIXIEHAIZIPOGUANZIPOSHUAI,NIBURANGWOZHEIYANG,WOPIANZHEIYANG。JIEGUOZAOCHENGTUIBOZHULANHUOFASHENGTAOKE,LIJIACHUZOU,SHENZHIGENGYANZHONGDEHOUGUO;HENDUOJIAZHANGSHUSHOUWUCEHUOBUGUANBUWENHUOMANBUJINGXINSUIQIZIRAN。BUDANGDEJIAOYUFANGSHISHIYINFAZHONGXUESHENGZAOLIANDEZHONGYAOYUANYIN。

早恋的特点分析:

(一)情感外露

BUYINMANZIJIDEGANQING,GONGKAIDEXIANGZIJIYAOHAODEPENGYOUJIAODIHEQINGQIUBANGZHU;BUGUXUEXIAODEXIAOGUIXIAOJI,ZAITONGXUEZHONGJIANDASIXUANYANG,ZIYIWEIRONG。BIANDEAIDABAN,JIANGJIUCHUANDAI,YIYINQIDUIFANGDEZHUYI、HAOGAN。 

(二)盲目选择

XUNZHAOZIJIZHONGSHENGDEBANLVYINGDANGKAOLVHENDUOYINSU,BIRU:QINGGANSHANGSHIFOUXIANGHE?SHIYESHANGSHIFOUNENGGOUXIANGHUJILI?SHENGHUOSHANGSHIFOUXIANGHUXIGUANDENG。FASHENGZAOLIANDEXUESHENGHENSHAOHUOGENBENBUKAOLVZHEIXIE,HENSUIBIANDELIANAI,YOUDEZHIZHUIQIUXIANGMAODEPIAOLIANG,YOUDESHENZHILIANZIJIYEBUZHIDAOJIUJINGKANZHONGLEDUIFANGSHENME。ZHEIZHONGMANGMUXINGHEYOUZHICHANGQIANFUZHEWEIXIANXING,RONGYISHOUPIANSHANGDANG,SHENZHIYIFABUKESHOUSHI,DADAOWUYAOKEJIUDEDIBU。

(三)感情浅薄

魔方娱乐FASHENGZAOLIANDEXUESHENGWANGWANGBATANLIANAIDANGZUOYOUXI,SHUOTANJIUTAN,SHUOSANJIUSAN,CHAOQINMUCHU,JIANYISIQIAN。LIANAIBUZHUANYI。“RE”DEKUAI,“LENG”DEYEKUAI。ZHEIZHONGZAOLIANQUEFAGANQINGJICHU,SUOYI,HENNANXIANGSHENDUFAZHAN。

(四)传染性强

JITIZHONGYIDANCHUXIANYIDUILIANZHE,BIANHUIBOJIZHENGGEJITI,FANGXIAOZHEJIELIANBUDUAN,XINGCHENGEXINGXUNHUAN,ZAOCHENGSIXIANGHUNLUAN,YANZHONGYINGXIANGXUEXI、GONGZUOHEBANJITUANJIE,TANLIANAICHENGWEIYIZHONGFENGQI,BIJIANGBAIHUAIXUEFENG、BANFENG。

如何处理谈恋爱的问题呢魔方娱乐?我认为应注意以下几个问题:

一、端正态度和认识

魔方娱乐BANZHURENBIXUZHENGQUEQUFENXUESHENGDANGZHONGDEYOUQINGHEAIQING,ZHENGCHANGJIAOWANGHE“ZAOLIAN”DEJIEXIAN,CONGERDUANZHENGZIJIDETAIDU。YONGQINJIN、LIJIEDETAIDUYUXUESHENGNAIXINJIAOTAN、YINDAO。LIJIE。QINGCHUNQIDEHAIZIMENXIHUANJIECHUYIXING,KEWANGYOUYIXINGPENGYOU,YUDAOBUSHUNXINDESHIZHAOYIXINGQINGSU,JIASHANGDUSHENGZINVGUDU、CUIRUO、BADAO、RENXING、YUFUMUDEDAIGOUDENG,SUOYIZHONGXUESHENGZAOLIANBUZUWEIQI。DANGRANLAOSHIHEJIAZHANGYAOZHONGSHIGUANLI,DANBUNENGSHANGHAIXUESHENGDEZIZUNXIN,DUIXUESHENGDEBUYAJUDONG、GUOJIXINGWEIDENGBUNENGHUIBI,YAOZHIJIELEDANGDIZHICHUQICUOWU,BAISHISHI、JIANGDAOLI,ZHUYIFANGSHIFANGFA,YAOTILIANGXUESHENGDECHENGSHOUNENGLI。

二、引导学生参加有益活动

魔方娱乐(YI)YINDAOXUESHENGKAIZHANDUOXIANGJITIHUODONG。TONGGUOHUODONGCHUANGZAOYIGEJIANKANGKUANSONGDENANNVJIAOWANGHUANJING,YINDAOXUESHENGZAIJITIHUODONGZHONGJINXINGZHENGCHANGDEYIXINGJIAOWANGHEQINGGANJIAOLIU,YIZENGJINDUIYIXINGDELEJIE,JIANLIDUIYIXINGDEZHENGCHANGTAIDUHEYOUHAOCHUNJIEDEGUANXIZUODAODAOGONGTONGZUNSHOUSHEHUIGUIFAN,BAWOYIXINGJIAOWANGDEFENCUN,DUANLIANLIZHIFENXIHELENGJINGKONGZHIZIWOXINGWEIDENENGLI。

(1)ZHUYIHUODONGNEIRONGDEFENGFUXING,RUBIANLUNSAI、KEBENJUBIANYAN、SHIGELANGSONG、FANGFENGZHENGDENG;

(2)ZHUYIHUODONGSHIDEYIXINGQUNTIZUHE,HUODONGZHONGYONGXIAOQUNTIWEIDANWEI,NANNVSHENGDAPEIZAILIURENYISHANG,BIMIANLIANGRENSHIJIE;

(ER)YOUYISHIDEZHUANYIXUESHENGDEJINGLI

魔方娱乐(1)RANGZAOLIANDEXUESHENGDANRENYIDINGDEBANJIGONGZUO,RANGGONGZUOQUGANTAMENDEWULIAOYUXIANZHIDESHIJIAN,CONGERYINDAOTAMENCONGGONGZUODELEQUZHONGZOUCHUZAOLIANDEYINYING;

魔方娱乐(2)GAIBIANBIEDEXUESHENGDUIZAOLIANXUESHENGDEKANFA,RANGZAOLIANXUESHENGDUOTOURUYOUYIDEHUODONG,BINGJITAMENCHUANGZAOYINJIECHUDAJIAERHUODECHENGGONGDEJIHUI,RUYIXIEBANJIDEJINGSAI、SHEHUISHANGDEYEYUJINGSAIDENG,SHITAMENCONGCHENGGONGZHONGSHULIZAITONGXUEZHONGDEWEIXIN,CONGERMINGBAIZAOLIANDAILAIDEWEIHAI,ZHONGXINBAIZHENGZIJIDEWEIZHI。

三、坚持正面疏导

魔方娱乐BANZHURENYAOZUNZHONGXUESHENGZHUYIQIFAHEBAOHUXUESHENGDEZIZUN、ZIAIHEZIZHONGYISHI。BUNENGBUWENQINGHONGZAOBAIDEYIWEIZHIZE,JIANDANCUBAO,HUOZHEXUNCHIMANMA,HEHUWEIXIE。DUIYUXUESHENGDEGERENYINSIBUYIGONGKAIGENGBUYAOWAICHUAN。   BANZHURENZHIYOUZUNZHONGLEXUESHENGDERENGE,CAINENGQUDEXUESHENGDEXINLAI,SHIQIYUANYIJIESHOULEYUJIESHOUJIAOYU。DUIZAOLIANXUESHENGYIDINGYAODUOGUANXIN,YAOYIPINGCHANGXINKANDAITAMEN。JIAOYUZHUANHUAGONGZUOYAOXUNXUNSHANYOU,BUNENGCAOZHIGUOJI,FANGFAYAOLINGHUODUOYANG,YAOJISHIJIAN,YAOYUNXUFANFU。BANZHURENYINGDANGZHENGQUEDEZHICHUSHENMEYANGDEQINGGANHEXUYAOSHIZHENGCHANGDEHEYUNXUDE,SHENMESHIYINGGAITICHANGDE,SHENMESHICUOWUDE,SHIBIXUFANDUIDE。ZHANGWOXUESHENGDESIXIANGTEDIANJINXINGZHENDUIXINGDEJIAOYU。

四、利用班会进行青春期教育

1.LIYONGBANHUIKEJINXINGQINGCHUNQIZHISHIJIANGZUO(KEFENNANNVSHENG)DUINANSHENGJINXINGZERENGANJIAOYU,DUINVSHENG,JINXINGZIAIYUZIZHONGJIAOYU。

2.DUIZAOLIANXUESHENGJINXINGXINGXINLIZIXUN

魔方娱乐3、TUIJIANYIXIEHAOSHURANGXUESHENGKAN。RU《QINGCHUNQIJIAOYUZHISHISHOUCE》、《XINLIJIANKANGYISHENG》、ZHONGXUEWEISHENGCHANGSHIKEBENDENG。LIYONGBANHUIZHUZHENDIDUIQUANTIXUESHENGJINXINGZHENGMIANYINDAOHEJIAOYU,SHIXUESHENGMINGBIANSHIFEIDONGDEZIZUNZIAIHEZEREN。DUIQINGCHUNQIDEHAIZIJINXINGZHENGMIANJIAOYUHEYINDAO。JIAOYUTAMENYAOXUEHUICHULINANSHENGNVSHENGZHIJIANDEGUANXI。

4、、ZUOHAONVSHENGDEGONGZUO

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五、晓之以理,束之以规

DUIZAOLIANXUESHENGBUNENGCUBAOGANSHE,QIANGXINGCHAISAN,YEBUNENGJUGAOLINXIA,YANCIXUNCHI,BANZHURENYINGCHENGWEIXUESHENGSHENGHUODAOLUDEYINLUREN,YIPINGDENGDETAIDU,YIPENGYOUHE“CANMOU”DESHENFEN,XIAOYILIHAI,YUYISHILI,BANGZHUTAMENCHULIHAOGUANXITAMENZHONGSHENXINGFUDEWENTI。YOUYUZHONGXUESHENGZIWOKEZHIDENENGLIJIAOCHA,ZAITONGGUOSHUOFUJIAOYU,XUESHENGXINYUECHENGFUDEQIANTIXIA,BANZHURENKEBANGZHUXUESHENGDINGCHUZIWOYUESHUDESHOUZE,BINGBANGZHUDUCUTAMENZIJUEDILVXINGSHOUZE,YIDANXINGCHENGXIGUAN,TAMENBIANHUIZIJUEDEZUNSHOU,BINGZHUJIANBAMUBIAOFANGDAOXUEXISHANGLAI。

六、学会借力

魔方娱乐JIAOYUBUSHIWANNENGDE。BIYAOSHIYAOTONGGUOJILVSHOUDUANLAIGUIFAN。JIAOJIDEYUCHUBUSHIZUIHAODEXUANZE——NEIZHISHIZUIHOUDEXUANZE。CHONGDONGWANGWANGSHIYIYUCHUNKAISHIYIHOUHUIERJIESHU。 WULUNDUISHENMEYANGDEXUESHENG,JIAOSHIDOUYINGZUNXUNYIGEYUANZE:ZUNZHONGXUESHENG,LIJIEXUESHENG,YONGZHENCHENGHEKEXUEDEJIAOYUHUANLAIXUESHENGDELIJIEHEXINREN,BANGZHUHAIMEIYOUZHANGDADETAMENSHUNLIDIDUGUOQINGCHUNQI。TONGSHIBANZHURENYAOSHANYUTONGGUODUOZHONGTUJING,TIGAOJIAZHANGDUIQINGCHUNQIHAIZIJIAOYUDERENSHI,BANGZHUJIAZHANGLEJIEZINVQINGCHUNQIFAYUDESHENGLIHEXINLITEDIANZHANGWOHAIZISHENXINFAZHANDEGUILV。

ZHONGXUESHENGZAOLIANSHIXIANSHIDE、WUFAHUIBIDEJIAOYUWENTI,WOMENWUBIRENZHENFENXIZHONGXUESHENGZAOLIANDEYUANYINHETEDIAN,JINXINGXUEXIAO、JIATING、SHEHUIDEZONGHEZHILI。

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