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自以为是类型学生案例分析

作者:8+1工作室 豆志超  时间:2016-03-31 09:12:00    浏览数:

 

分析对象:李某,男,17岁,济源市区人,成绩二本线附近,很少上线,学习能力一般,学习习惯差,父亲电视台工作,教育较为简单粗暴,高中好很多,母亲电信营业厅工作。

  存在的教育问题:1.心理上比较严重的自以为是,自认为自己很聪明,不能客观自我定位,爱高估自己,但又是成绩不佳,学习能力实际较差,并且这类学生常以自己没有全力学习作为自己成绩不好的借口和台阶,自我安慰,缺乏对自己深刻的分析和认知;2.上课容易走神,爱说闲话,注意力集中时间比较短,学习习惯差;3.侥幸心理严重,犯错除非现场发现,否则后期被发现往往死不承认,直到拿出真凭实据之后勉强承认,又想方设法为自己开脱责任;4.很难认识到问题的本质,犯错之后往往不能认识到自身的错误而吸取教训,所以大小错误在班内犯得最多,很难听取老师的建议而改正,属于非常难以改变自身问题的学生;5.犯错之后往往伴随一种标志性笑容而一笑了之,总认为自己犯的错误没什么,这点小错误至于嘛;6.自我要求低,责任感弱,作业完成不好而经常被老师批评,但是又不好好改正,不接受老师的建议和批评,最后又长期不能改正自己的不良习惯和态度,导致老师对其失望而不愿再关注、要求。

犯过的具体错误:上学期有,带手机进班,顶撞老师,顶撞班委,不服从管理,作业经常完成不好,上课经常说话聊天,可以说大小错误都有,而且不吸取教训,屡教不改。

具体事例1:由于上学期屡犯错误而且没有认真吸取教训,这学期打算叫家长来交流一下他的问题和解决办法,不过没有具体过错,我一般是不打扰家长的。本学期刚开学,取消了开学考试,改为学科测试,第一天就是物理晚自习,马主任在我班进行物理测试,学生们都在认真做卷纸,而他没做多久就感到无聊,看起来长篇小说《围城》。我抓的现行,所以也算无话可说,趁此机会叫了他家长来学校交流。来的是他妈妈,我先说明了问题的经过,再讨论了孩子上学期并不令人满意的表现,尤其是不能及时吸取犯错后的经验,听不进去别人的批判和建议,心存侥幸,不能真正认识到这些错误和恶习最终耽误的是自己的学习和前途。他妈妈也反应了很多情况,他在家就是这个类似情况,人性情并不坏,就是坏毛病很多,还不改正,她说没有多大作用,而他父亲比较简单粗暴,还打他,不过作用也很有限。我建议不能再打孩子,他已经接近成年,有一定的理性和思想,优先以理服人,多在生活具体的事情上纠正孩子错误的认知和习惯,因为生活和学习虽然内容有所不同,但是内在的思维逻辑、处理态度和个人倾向是一致的,包括对自己的定位和认知。我们叫来李某,各自说了自己对他的批判,指出他的常见问题,希望在本学期之初就尽快改正,如果不能自我修正,恐怕难以考取理想大学,耽误前程,让家人失望。他一般犯错之后的认错态度还是可以的,只是能不能真的认识到自己的错误就难说了。我们还一起讨论确定了他本学期合适的学习具体目标,希望对他有一定的督促作用,本次罚站一天,他和家长同意后就让他进班学习了。

具体事例2:第一次犯错没过多久,年级要求个别班级召开班级研修会,在我们班的研修会上,我们谈到了李某,化学老师说她比较了解李某的情况,他们长期住在一个小区,可以说是看着孩子长大的,孩子也不是真坏,对人很有礼貌,就是学习上问题不少,态度不端。英语老师反映,在前一天的英语课上,她发现李某在听耳机,她走过去去收耳机,看得一清二楚,而且还拉到他的胳膊了,但是李某坚决不承认,更没有给她耳机,这事说起来有些让她生气。我刚刚听到这个事情也有些意外,不过也觉得对爱犯错误的李某来说也很正常。我问是不是在听手机或MP3、MP4类的东西,英语老师说没有看到,都有可能,我承诺这件事我会立即处理,给英语老师一个好的答复。这件事情我认为是一件大事,可以反映出李某至少存在五个问题:①仍然和上学期一样,没有吸取刚刚不久的教训,没有端正态度用心学习;②没有在犯错之后向英语老师当场承认错误还认为英语老师比较温和而百般否认,没有上交自己违纪的工具,这属于比较严重的不尊重老师,从情节来看甚至有顶撞老师的嫌疑;③如果耳机下面是手机的话,带手机进班属于班内严重违纪行为,更何况是在老师在的上课期间玩手机,这是非常恶劣的违纪行为;④在犯了这个大错之后心存侥幸,李某既没有找班主任说明情况,也没有找英语老师道歉,认为可能蒙混过关;⑤班内发生如此严重的事情,无论是值日班长还是班内班委竟然没有一人向我反映这件事,说明班级管理还存在比较严重的漏洞。

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1.魔方娱乐找英语老师当面道歉,最好写一份道歉信显得更有诚意,他父母也愿意陪同一起致歉,这样其实更好。

2.原本错误不算很大,但是后续表现十分不好,惹老师生气,让家人失望,扣除个人量化10分,加上上次看课外书扣除2人,总共扣除12人,超过20分给予学校处分(原本打算直接给予学校处分,考虑到事情比想象的小些,叫家长本身已经是比较严厉的处罚,回来之后的表现尚可,而且理由上也不是很充分)。

3.上交违纪物品。

4.中午打扫教室一周,作为一种自我提醒。

5.每天反省一次自身的得失,写在周基本上,每周上交一次班主任查看。

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    后续处理:

1.魔方娱乐班会课,强调值日班长和班委需要及时向班主任反映班内重大违纪行为,包括顶撞老师、顶撞班委或值日班长、带手机进班、男女过于亲密等,值日班长是第一责任人,负责记录在班级日志中并立即告知班主任。

2.魔方娱乐对于顶撞老师,依据情节,给予扣除个人量化10分或20分以上处分(给予学校处分),并公开道歉。顶撞常任班委或值日班长,扣除量化5分,并公开道歉。

3.魔方娱乐强调犯错违纪后的表现和配合很重要,错误本身都不是大问题,问题是犯错之后要及时承认错误,认识到错误本身影响的是自己的前程未来,对老师影响不大,是自己的问题。

4.魔方娱乐不能公开在课堂上和老师顶撞和冲突,如果对于老师的批判有异议,先不反驳,下课后再和老师及时沟通,如果有困难可以通过班主任沟通。否则即使自己有些道理,在课堂上和老师争吵,那么也没有了道理,影响了整个班级的学习和形象,影响老师对班级的集体印象和好感,问题就严重的多了,必然只能严肃处理了。

5.根据李某所说,他是和班内的王某和张某了解情况,原来他们两个在参加一个科技创新大赛,在制作一个机器,是一位老师在指导他们,并且只在周末去实验室搞,制作耳机是很早就会的,李某好奇知道了,就让我教他。我批评了他的作为,科技创新没有问题,不能影响正常学习,更不能搞得别人不专心学习,李某不是参与者,如果学也不应该是在班内上课和午休的时候,他本来注意力就不集中,学习习惯差,底子薄,这是在帮他还是害他。此错不能再犯。

    李某后续表现:

1.学习态度端正不少,作业基本可以完成,会问同学问题,还肯主动问我生物问题,在比较认真地准备月考。

2.犯小错之后,及时承认错误,接受合理处罚,没有多余异议和反驳。

3.魔方娱乐还有一些不良习惯,但在改,已经减少不少,不能期望一下完全改干净。

4.魔方娱乐最近犯了一个错误,主动来承认错误,没有给予处罚,只是提醒不要再犯。

5.主动参加运动会的班级后勤服务,为班级做贡献。(打算运动会给予个人量化加分处理,正面肯定他的做法和改变,作为一定的鼓励)

    自我反省:

1.魔方娱乐我没有在上学期李某犯错误的时候给予严肃具体的学校处分,所以教训不够,改变太慢。

2.没有很好的使用个人量化制度,个人量化是对学生的一种基本约束,上学期没有重视。

3.魔方娱乐上学期其实早就发现他问题在于自我定位的错位,只是缺乏足够的数据和证据,加上了解还不够充分,我即使说出来李某也未必服气承认自己学习能力差这个基本事实,这确实是一个客观问题。

4.魔方娱乐对于这种本性不坏、错误不断的学生,关键问题在于自我反思很少,做事情不过脑子,对问题认识肤浅,我上学期就应该针对此点要求其每日反思得失,并写在周记上可查,可是没有要求。

5.魔方娱乐此次事件之后,不必过于刻意关注他,以防让他感到不舒服和针对他,并做好他继续犯些错误的心理准备,这种问题严重的学生,还是不能期望过高,改变不能一蹴而就。

 

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